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- 2. Dez 2024
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I don’t really know where we are at the moment so I am going to write about the entire book because I managed to finish it the past days.
Generally I can say that I am a big fan of Jay Shetty’s writing style. The book is easy to understand because he doesn’t use too difficult vocabulary and the many real life examples make it even more accessible. What what was interesting for me was the additional scientific information. I also appreciated the “Try this” inputs as they are a great way to apply the rules in real life and to learn more about yourself (and your partner). However, it took me quite a long time to read all of the rules which might be because it is a self-help/self-development book that requires some thinking and reflecting.
Sometimes I thought the book was a bit too theoretical and too “trying to get the best out of everything”, especially the second part which was the part I struggled most with reading it. And I think in order for any relationship to benefit the most, it is neccessary that both read it.
Personally, I enjoyed reading every rule but I could benefit the most of part one (solitude) and part three (healing). In my opinion, some things I learned aren’t just useful for romantic relationships but also for good and healthy communication of which any relationship and conversation can benefit from.
Finally I can say I’m grateful that I got to read this book and I would definitely recommend reading it!
I finally found the time to finish reading the first part and generally I can say that I really like Jay Shetty’s writing style. For me it is quite easy to read and I think it’s great that the author always adds some examples to the topics which makes them more comprehensible and accesible.
At the beginning of the book I sometimes couldn’t connenct the topic he wrote about with love itself but as I continued reading it got clearer and I started seeing the connections. The first two rules helped me understand myself better as they made me realize a lot of things. For example, I really liked that he wrote about what it takes to go from loneliness to solitude and what influences our way of thinking/acting (desire, parents, media etc…).
I’m looking forward to reading the next part of the book!
Fanny Das 4. Buch, “101 Essays, die dein Leben verändern werden” von Brianna Wiest würde mich sehr interessieren, da ich sehr gerne solche Ratgeber lese. Auch habe ich von vielen Menschen gehört, dass sie dieses Buch mögen, weshalb ich schon länger mit dem Gedanken gespielt habe, es zu kaufen.