I went a few years ago to london. At Foyels I was browsing through the departments of music, fiction and psychology. Well there it was. A book full of captivating stories, told by a psychoanalyst which is driven by the thought “ To live is not imagined without change. And every change comes with loss. “ It was fascinating. Grosz is listening for the unspoken and the gaps in between and about all what makes us human.